DESPITE BIPOLAR IRRESPONSIBLE BEHAVIORS FORCED PATERNITY TEST PRIOR TO RECEIVING COURT ORDER IN A SITUATION THAT
CHILD ENFORCEMENT OFFICE HAD NOT ENCOUNTERED.
Despite the Bipolar and as facts which can be entered into evidence will show that I have had a life-long connection to both mother and child, often providing incremental fiscal support (more significant in my high wage earning jobs), self-appeared in a dispute which involved mother and her mother in potential elder abuse and removal of the child by Broward County Sherriffs and Child Enforcement, and would regular put them up in an adjacent hotel (in proximity of the DELANO, South Beach) so they could be a part of my life. As pictures illustrate at www.shaunod.us/shaun10036 I never abandoned them even though the blood test returned negative. The mother was so convinced that the test had been flawed we had discussion over me self-paying for the test should the child ever want it - giving them my blood without objection at any time and be pro a self-paternity test when the child decided at 18 years of age.
In light of the Massachusetts State Lab test schandel it is possible that State labs are flawed. The child appearing to have symptoms of ADHD and learning challenges, perhaps all environmental, along with what I believed to be similar psychical characteristics and adamant demeanor of the mother made me question her suspicions. However, I later believed that one, it did not matter as I had affection for both of them and while not the father was the closest role model during a significant part of his life, even from a far. The parental nature may just have been wishful thinking on my part. First, the blood test scheduled was postponed when the nurse failed to show up as scheduled which extended my stay in Fort Lauderdale, secondly, the blood draw was at a run down YMCA. The procedures and protocols seemed sketchy at best.
Despite my inability to problem solve from fiscal crisis in my life from a very early age, partially due to being spoiled by my Grandfather and throughout my childhood being the favored grandchild, probably in light of my iffy at best traumatic birth (born March 9, 1968 and released from Saint Margaret's Hospital after being Baptized at Birth on Easter Sunday. My Grandparents had a history of miscarriages and the combination of the first born and this probably gave me a special relationship with both my Grandparents to whom I was the closest to, being the only child to self-visit them on a regular basis, including as a child walking to the nursing home (from Rindge Avenue, more precisely Rindge Terrace, in Cambridge, MA to Massachusetts at Russell Street (Cambridge Nursing Home). Both my mother and Grandfather had a relationship with the predominant Speaker of the House of Representatives, Thomas “Tip” O’Neil.
My Grandfather, unintentionally impressed me and my Uncle Clem with money and was impeccable dressed, often dining with his best friend Jim Fergason, Tip O’Neil’s Chief of Staff. (to wit: Frank’s, Jimmy’s, and the Cottage Crest in Waltham, MA.
My Grandmother took her last breath with me and an ex-girlfriend when the rest of the family was boarding an Aer Lingus flight to Ireland for the first time. Using “missing persons skills” and contacting the Massachusetts State Police Barracks at Logan Airport we managed to intervene my mother before she was airborne. Both her and I assumed the responsibility for the passing while the rest of the family vacationed. I believe I inadvertently abandoned my Grandfather when I became social involved with peers in Marlboro, MA after first visiting the City on a missing persons case for Paula Danforth, which was the catalyst for what evolved from the Massachusetts Safety Service, into Massachusetts Mutual Aid, into Search and Rescue Association, into New England Missing Persons Bureau. No other agency received the accolades and level of respect by law enforcement as we did with New England Missing Persons Bureau.
The caring for the child extended most recently into 2010 when his medical insurance lapsed and as a concerned third-party I tried to rectify that issue. The mother’s support structure with her own parents was lacking from an early adult age with their early in life deaths and living in almost poverty.
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